Addiction (also called substance use disorder) is a chronic medical condition that changes how the brain works and how a person thinks, feels, and behaves.(Source) It is not a weakness, a lack of willpower, or something you caused.

In the United States, millions of children live in families where at least one parent has an alcohol or drug problem.(Source) Research shows that children who grow up around substance misuse are more likely to experience anxiety, depression, difficulties at school, and relationship problems later in life.(Source) They are also at higher risk of developing substance use issues themselves, especially if they start using alcohol or drugs at a young age.(Source)

None of this means your future is ruined or that you are destined to repeat your parent’s patterns. It does mean that getting information, support, and healthy coping skills now can make a real difference in your life.